Thursday, July 7, 2011

First post!


For those of you who don't know me, my name is Melissa Montes. I have been married for 15 years to Alejandro, who is from Spain. We have 1 daughter who we adopted from Vietnam in 2007. She is now 4 years old and a blessing. We are so privileged to be her parents.

We also are parents of an angel baby, who was born still in February of 2011.

We are fortunate to be able to begin a second adoption, this time from Honduras. We were originally considering a domestic adoption, but decided against it for many reasons. We began the adoption process in the Ethiopia program last October. Around the time our dossier was almost complete, except for our Immigration approval letter (the 171H) The U.S. Department of State issued a warning of major delays in the Ethiopia program, because of corruption in-country. Since we saw this happen in Vietnam, after we adopted our daughter, we decided to change countries. There are still 16 legitimate orphans in Vietnam who are matched with U.S. families who cannot come home, caught in the middle of bureacratic limbo for the last 3 years, which was when the country closed to U.S. adoptions. We were one of the lucky ones.

When the news was announced about the Ethiopia program, our agency announced they were starting a pilot program in Honduras. We decided that would be perfect for us, especially
because we both speak Spanish and Tegucigalpa is just a 3 hour flight from Atlanta. I am a Flight Attendant for Delta, and we have daily flights. there.

Honduras requires many other documents for the dossier than we had for Ethiopia, so we had to do a lot of the paperwork over. We had to update our Home Study and send it to USCIS again, along with a change of country request. A 2-hour personality test is also required. It took a few months to get all of this together. We just received our USCIS approval letter last week. We had been waiting since March 9th.

Now that all the paperwork is done on my part (I hope!) I have decided to start this blog. My agency says once the dossier is submitted, it will need to be translated and accepted by INHFA (in Honduras), who will accept it or ask for more information. Once we are accepted by INHFA, we will wait 6-12 months to be matched. We are requesting a boy up to 18 months at the time of referral. Honduras requires 2 trips with a few months in between. By the time the baby comes home, he could be 1 year or 2 years old.

We are very excited, but ready for a long wait and perhaps more paperwork and interviews, etc. The baby's name will be Samuel, but that is another post in itself....

5 comments:

  1. I'm so happy to be able to follow along on your new journey! Thanks for sharing!

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  2. What a long road to reach Honduras, but like you, it seems like a perfect fit for us! I am a Spanish teacher so I already speak Spanish and I fell in love with Central America years ago when I started accompanying my aunt to Guatemala to help with a small clinic in Coban. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us! We just sent in our dossier yesterday so maybe we will get matched up around the same time! I hope the wait is not too long!

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  3. Melissa nos encanta esta idea de blog. La seguiremos continuamente, esperando siempre noticias frescas y buenas. Te mandamos un beso muy grande a ti, al primo Alejandro y la bella Zoe, de Perico, Rosanny, Arturo y Sara.

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  4. I am excited to follow your journey! We were put on the wait list for Ethiopia on May 17, 2010. When things got rocky we started everything over with Honduras. We were in the middle of the Guatemala shut down, and we are very blessed that our daughter came home. I can really relate to your story! I don't have much on my blog about Honduras, yet. My emotions are still raw after waiting so long for Ethiopia. Plus we are still waiting on our I-171H. I am about to lose my mind! :) I am excited to find blogs to read about others Honduras adoption journeys!!

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  5. Thanks for sharing Melissa :) I'm so excited for you guys. And i LOVE the baby's name!!

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